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  %SIGNS DYSFUNCTIONAL ATTITUDES BELIEFS CONVICTION+940204
 %HIDDEN COLLUSIVE GAME MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION ENJOY+940204
%DEFENSE IRRITATE TRY FRIEND SECURE RELAX TRUE SELF+940204
 %ULTIMATE CONCERN APPEAR INTEGRITY PERSON RELATION 940204

     So long as  our ultimate concerns revolve around  our
defenses  of the appearance of integrity in our  collusive
games  of  mutual self deception---so long we will be  up-
tight, irritable, defensive,  trying, unfriendly, insecure
and  unable  to relax in the enjoyment  of  being true  to
ourselves and each other.

     Our  integrity  is put in doubt if we are  constantly
up-tight,   irritable,   defensive,  trying,   unfriendly,
insecure and  unable  to  relax in the enjoyment  of being
true to ourselves and each other.  These are   signs which
clearly point  to the hidden existence  of  our  collusive
games of mutual self deception.  Why else would such clear
signs of dysfunctional attitudes,   beliefs,  convictions,
assumptions,   and  perceptions be so  pervasive  in   our
personal relationships?    What alternative hypothesis can
be shown to be more reasonable?

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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