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  %SEX DOMINANCE CONTROL EXCITE VULNERABLE INTIMATE 931118

     Males  have  traditionally tried to  dominate  sexual
relationships,   and  have only  rarely  acknowledged  the
futility  and  frustration which is associated  with  such
attempts at being in control of intimate relationships.

     The   more  intimate  a  relationship  is  the   more
vulnerable are the participants in the relationship.    To
find  meaning  and satisfaction in intimate  relationships
the participants must learn how to be safely vulnerable in
intimacy,   to  give the gift of the freedom to be  safely
vulnerable,   and  to  graciously accept the gift  of  the
freedom to be safely vulnerable.

     Males who try to dominate intimate relationships,  to
be in control,  to determine the course of the development
of  the relationship,  and to say what should,   and  what
should  not  happen,   are  unable  to  become  meaningful
participants in truly intimate relationships.  Thus sexual
domination in   efforts  to achieve personal  meaning  and
satisfaction within sexual relationships are bound to lead
to  dissatisfaction,   frustration and anger which may  be
expressed through violence of some form or another.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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