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%PREVENT TRANSCEND WISE INSIGHT PERCEPTION INTIMACY+931106
   %REPRESSIVE MORAL OBJECTIVE RULES REGULATION LAW+931106
%COLLUSION SEXUAL REPRESSION PREVENT INTEGRITY RULE 931106

     Participants  in  collusions seek to  prevent  anyone
from recognizing the lack of integrity and  honesty in the
behavior  of the participants in the  collusions.    Truly
intimate relationships and  especially  integrative sexual
relationships  promote  healthy  insights  into  dishonest
patterns  of behavior.   Thus participants  in  collusions
work  to  minimize truly intimate relationships  and  they
work   especially  hard  to  prevent  integrative   sexual
relationships   which   promote  healthy   insights   into
dishonest  patterns  of behavior;  for it is a  matter  of
ultimate importance to the survival of their collusions.

     By   focusing  exclusively  upon  the  physical   and
physiological    aspects   of   intimacy   and   sexuality
participants in collusions shift attention away  from  the
possibility   of  insights  into  dishonest  patterns   of
behavior.   Rules, regulations, laws and moral codes which
focus  exclusively  upon  the physical  and  physiological
aspects  of intimacy thus serve the dishonest purposes  of
participants  in collusions.   They shift  attention  away
from the spiritual qualities,  spirit, and other qualities
of   the   intimate   and/or   sexual   relationships---to
exclusively physical and physiological aspects of intimacy
and sexuality.

     Whether   or   not   an   intimate   and/or    sexual
relationships  is  contributing to personal  and  communal
integrity cannot be determined  by  exclusively  objective
and   physiological   considerations  in  the  manner   of
objective  scientists  of  any  kind.    The  essences  of
intimate and/or  sexual relationships  cannot be described
in   exclusively  objective,   systematic,   quantitative,
analytic, scientific, technocratic terms.  The traditional
paradigms  of legalists,   judgementalists,  objectivists,
systems   analysts,    measurement   experts,     personal
animalists, scientists and  technocrats  are inappropriate
to  the evaluation of  truly  intimate and/or  integrative
sexual relationships.   To deal wisely with truly intimate
and/or integrative sexual relationships  requires  a shift
away   from   the   specialized   paradigms   which   have
traditionally  dominated  considerations of  intimacy  and
sexuality.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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