This is http://www.essayz.com/a9311062.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %FAULT DEFECT IMPERFECT LACK ABSENT NEGLECT MISSING+931106 %IDEAL VALUE GOAL PRINCIPLE PERSONAL INTEGRITY 931106 Often situations are unsatisfactory for reasons which are obviously evident in the clear presence of an irritating condition, behavior, object, disease, person, conflict, etc. In other situations there is a deep sense of dissatisfaction---but the reasons are not obviously evident; because the reasons have to do with an absence, lack, missing factor: or with neglected ideals, values, goals, principles and integrative considerations. It is exceedingly difficult to identify the reasons for our dissatisfaction when the reasons for our dissatisfaction have to do with an absence, lack, missing factor: or with neglected ideals, values, goals, principles and integrative considerations. It is even more difficult to identify the reasons for our dissatisfaction when the reasons are themselves the causative factors which have lead to our blindness toward the absence, lack, missing factor; and to our blindness toward the neglect of balancing ideals, values, goals, principles and integrative considerations. For the above reasons it is difficult to transcend the tragic consequences of our collusive games of mutual self deception, our addictions, and our patterns of support of dysfunctional dishonest people. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================