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%ARROGANT DEFENSE PRETENSE MANIPULATE POWER CONTROL 931106

     People  who  are  insecure and unable  to  be  safely
vulnerable  are often arrogant,  defensive,   pretentious,
manipulative  and preoccupied with the power to appear  to
be  in  control.    Their  insecurity  leads   them   into
arrogance, defensiveness, pretentiousness,  manipulations,
preoccupations  with  power,   addictions  and codependent
support of dysfunctional people who cannot with equanimity
consider entering into open and honest relationships where
true  security  is given and accepted as the free gift  of
love.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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