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                   %IDOLATRY ULTIMATE CONCERN TABOO+930716
        %+IMPRISON COLLUDE ADDICT CODEPEND DESCRIBE 930716

     So  long as we are imprisoned by our collusive  games
of self deception, addictions and codependencies---so long
we are unable  to  describe  and  clarify  the  process of
increasing  our  security  through  giving  and  receiving
incremental  increases  in our levels of mutual  risk  and
trust.    The  process of increasing our security  entails
letting  go of our dishonest patterns of  defense  through
offering  and  accepting increasing levels of mutual  risk
and  trust---contrary to the disintegrative demands of our
collusions,  addictions and codependencies.  It is hard to
know  how to truly increase our level of security if it is
taboo to describe the honest steps which are essential  to
the  process.    When  honesty is  taboo  because  of  our
collusions, true security cannot be described,  understood
or  enjoyed.    It  is hard to  change  our  dysfunctional
patterns  of behavior so long as we do not describe openly
and honestly the consequences of our inability to describe
the steps toward increased security.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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