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   %HUMAN RELATION DICHOTOMY BOUND INTIMATE CONTROL 930705

     Prohibitions of behaviors in the absence of any first
person  existential  descriptions of the  consequences  of
engaging  in  the  prohibited  behaviors  often  make  the
prohibited  behaviors appear more alluring and the  people
who  prohibit the behavior appear less worthy of  respect.
This  is especially the case when the prohibited behaviors
are  not easily distinguished in sharply defined  ways  as
clearly  different from related behaviors which are worthy
of high levels of respect.

     Human   relationships   cannot  be   accurately   and
helpfully described by the use of dichotomous  categories,
languages,   and paradigms.   It is not easy to accurately
and helpfully describe  in clearly drawn  ways  where  the
boundaries  are between  human behaviors which  should  be
discouraged  or prohibited   and  those  which  should  be
encouraged or required.

     The  above  considerations are  often  relevant  when
seeking  to  deal  wisely  with  the  various  aspects  of
intimate  human relationships which may or may not  evolve
into  overtly or covertly sexual relationships.   In  such
relationships   attempts  to  control  the   relationships
through  prohibitions and prescriptions are likely  to  be
disintegrative  in  tragic  ways which are  likely  to  be
accentuated  by  high  levels of  sincerity,   conviction,
effort and technological sophistication.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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