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%ACTOR FULL CONTROL EMOTION PRETEND FEEL AFFECT JOY+930621
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     The person who has emotions fully under control is an
actor on a stage which is a real stage in a theater,  or a
pretend stage in real life.

     Emotions which are  fully under  control  are  not as
authentic and meaningful  as emotions which are  not fully
under control.   When it is impossible to tell if  another
person's  emotions  are  fully under the  control  of  the
person, it is impossible to tell how authentic  and heart-
felt the emotions  are;  how meaningful they really are to
the  person  who  has  their  emotions fully  under  their
control.

     It  is  also useful to consider  instances  in  which
people are in control of each other's emotions.

     If  Jack has Jill's emotions fully under his  control
it  is  impossible  for Jack to  tell  how  authentic  and
meaningful Jill's emotions are;  and similarly if Jill has
Jack's emotions fully under her control.

     Having  another persons  emotions fully under control
often appears to be a desirable goal,  but only until  the
goal is achieved and thoughtfully considered;  and perhaps
only until the  goal  is  thoughtfully  considered  in the
imagination, even without actually achieving the goal.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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