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%CONFLICT ADDICT CONTROL TRANSCEND IDEAL VALUE LOVE+930430
 %ACHIEVE INVULNERABILITY SECURITY ELICIT DEFENSIVE 930430

     We  often  seek  to   achieve  security  through  the
achievement of invulnerability.

     To  the  extent  that   we  try   to  make  ourselves
invulnerable,   to  that extent we  make those  around  us
feel insecure and defensive.

     To the extent  that   we make   those  around us feel
insecure and  defensive,    to  that extent they  make  us
to  feel insecure.

     We   cannot   achieve   true  security   through  the
achievement of invulnerability.

     We can offer  and   perhaps give  to  each other true
security which is the freedom to be safely vulnerable.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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