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 %FROZEN IDEAL RELATION GROW CHANGE OPEN BOUND LOVE 930320

     Frozen relationships are not changing,  not  growing,
not  developing.   Frozen relationships are often insecure
relationships  in which participants fear change,  growth,
and  development.   They seek static balance  rather  than
dynamic   balance.     They  seek  the  ideal   condition,
relationship or person;   and in insecurity act as if they
have arrived and need seek  no further.   They do not seek
process,   but achievement; not a way,  but a destination;
not  an intimate relationship,  but fulfillment of a role,
script or formal contract.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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