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   %REQUIRE DISHONEST SECRET TABOO DOUBLE BIND FAIL 930215

     Dishonesty is required by collusions,  addictions and
codependencies in more than one sense.

     A condition for survival of  collusions,   addictions
and   codependencies  is  the  use  of  dishonesty  as   a
manipulative  tool;   it is  a  requirement  for  survival
because the truth must be hidden.

     Because  dishonesty is a requirement for the survival
of collusions,  addictions and codependencies---dishonesty
is  required  of people who might threaten through  honest
personal integrity.

     For people  who  want to be  honest,   dishonesty  is
required,  else they will be violated by active colluders,
addicts and teams of codependent supporters. Honest people
must  be dishonest about their desire to be honest  people
of integrity---for such people are a threat. Honest people
are placed in a double bind.

     People  who  want to be enjoy personal  and  communal
integrity  are  double bound if they  are  dependent  upon
colluders, addicts and/or codependent supporters; e.g., as
parents,  teachers,  employers,  supervisors,  professors,
religious leaders,  political superiors, lovers,  friends,
etc.    To  maintain  close  relations  with  such  people
dishonesty  is  required;  yet dishonesty is  the  way  to
personal  and  communal disintegration.  It  is  a  no-win
dilemma with no technical solution possible.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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