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  %GOOD SEX COMMODITY FIX SERVICE GET PURCHASE RISK+921216
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     In  many  communities the impression  which  one  can
easily get is that good sex is a commodity,  fix, service,
purchase or something which can be gotten or taken if  one
has  the means/will/power to do so.  It may seem that good
sex has to do with superficial beauty, cosmetics, or other
supportive possessions.  Rarely is it made clear that good
sexual RELATIONSHIPS have to do with honesty, reliability,
trustworthiness, balance, and justice.

     Good  sex  has  to  do  with  RELATIONSHIPS.     Each
participant  in  a good  sexual RELATIONSHIPS  contributes
essential  aspects  to   the   good  RELATIONSHIPS.   Good
relationships   cannot   be  found,   purchased,    owned,
manipulated or gotten as a commodity,  fix or service. The
relationship  between a good sexual relationship  and  the
participants  within  it,   is  a relationships  which  is
essentially different than is the relationship between the
finder, purchaser,  owner,  or manipulator of a commodity,
fix  or  service;   and the OBJECT which is the  focus  of
attention of that person. People who do not understand the
difference  pointed to here,  are not likely to respect or
enjoy  good  sexual  relationships;   or  to  be  able  to
communicate  meaningfully and accurately true  information
regarding good sexual relationships.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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