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 %DANGER TOLERATE COLLUDE ADDICT CODEPEND TABOO LAW 921124

     It    is    dangerous    to    tolerate    alienative
collusions, addictions,   codependencies,   and  taboos---
because   the  patterns    which  they  create   in   what
appear    to   be constructive  efforts,    set alienative
precedents     which    inhibit   dialogue,     listening,
conversations,     creativity,    imagination,    conflict
resolution  and   integration  in many  other  situations.
Alienative   collusions,   addictions, codependencies, and
taboos  cannot  honestly be justified in terms   of  their
benefits   in  one  set  of  contexts;   without  honestly
looking   at  all the disintegrative   consequences  which
they lead to in many other contexts.

     One     of     the    alienative    consequences   of
collusions,  addictions, codependencies and taboos is that
they work to hide their disintegrative consequences   from
view;   while justifying themselves in terms  of  apparent
benefits  in  a limited  set of contexts.   Once they  get
well   established within  a  community or culture,  it is
difficult   for  their  member   participant/victims    to
recognize   how  they  are trapped in double-bind  prisons
which are invisible.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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