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 %DESTRUCTIVE DISINTEGRATIVE GENEROSITY CODEPENDENT 920918

     There  are many codependent people who need to  learn
to   recognize   that  some  forms   of   generosity   are
destructive,  manipulative, disintegrative, and not worthy
of respect.

     There  are  also many people who need to  learn  that
there  are  forms  of generosity which  are  constructive,
charitable, integrative, and worthy of respect.

     Each  kind of person needs to learn to recognize  the
other kind of person,  their needs,  and how both kinds of
people may deal honestly with their own needs and with the
needs  of  others,  without  engaging  in coercive/violent
manipulations and/or acts of neglect.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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