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 %INTIMATE PERSON RELATE CONVERSE TOUCH OBJECT MEAN 920718

     To the extent that we enter honestly into significant
and    meaningful    intimate   personal    relationships,
conversations  and mutual touching;  to such an extent  we
transcend  compulsively objective behaviors,  thoughts and
emotions.   For  this  reason people who are  addicted  to
collusions  regarding  the advantages  of  an  exclusively
objective   paradigm,    will  inhibit   significant   and
meaningful intimate personal  relationships, conversations
and  mutual  touching;   for within their paradigm  to  be
faithful  they  must  protect their  collusions  from  the
truths   which   are  likely  to  be   discovered   within
significant     and    meaningful    intimate     personal
relationships, conversations and mutual touching.

     Personal  relationships are not objective because  in
personal  relationships  we care about how  other  persons
within the relationships respond to us;  we cannot be well
detached from such realities.

     Conversations    are   not   objective   because   in
conversations  what other persons say and how they respond
to what we say are of concern to us as persons;  we cannot
be well detached from such realities.

     Mutual  touching is not objective because our  bodies
are  directly involved in mutual touching;  we  cannot  be
well detached from mutual touching.

     It is disintegrative for us to pretend that  personal
relationships,   conversations and touching can be entered
into in objective ways; and it is disintegrative to try to
enter  into them without an honest acknowledgment that the
objective  paradigm does not provide wise guidance on  how
to do so well.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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