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   %NAME DESCRIBE DIFFERENCE CONTROL EMOTION RELATE 911212

     We are often troubled when we do not know how to name
and  describe the differences between what we can control,
and what we cannot control.

     We often achieve satisfaction through our ability  to
manipulate and control objects; and seek further emotional
satisfactions   through   other   achievements   involving
control.    We seek to achieve control over our  emotional
states   of  being,   and  find  we  cannot  control   our
frustrations  when  we  cannot produce  in  ourselves  and
others the emotions which we seek to produce!

     We are frustrated when our proven ability to  control
objects  does not transfer into an ability to control  our
emotions,  expressions  and relationships; whether they be
our own or those of other persons.     We may  assume that
our   failures   at   achieving   such  desired    control
resides in lack of knowledge,  understanding,  dedication,
effort, organization, analysis, persistent, etc.    Due to
such  assumptions we keep trying to achieve  control  over
what we cannot control.

     We  need  to  work on learning how  to  describe  the
differences between what we can control with satisfaction,
and what we cannot control with satisfaction.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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