This is http://www.essayz.com/a9112091.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %SEEK MUTUAL ENJOY CONTROL CONFORM HONEST DIALOGUE 911209 We seek happiness, joy and enjoyment; but do not find/create them in BEING IN CONTROL of any thing, person or process. We seek happiness, joy and enjoyment; but do not find/create them in CONFORMITY to any thing, person or process. We seek happiness, joy and enjoyment; but do not find/create them in PERFECTION defined in any way by any person, institution, or set of ideals and values. Our happiness, joy and enjoyment come in BEING TOGETHER IN EACH OTHER'S PRESENCE IN OPEN AND HONEST DIALOGUE which is FREE OF COMPULSIVE PREOCCUPATIONS with happiness, joy, enjoyment, control, things, persons, conformity, and perfection of any kind. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================