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  %RIGHT SELF SATISFACTION REFLEXIVE SUCCESS DEPEND 911206

     Often   people  have  their  thought  processes   all
confused   and  twisted  up.    Some  people   become   so
deferential  to  the  rights  of  other  people,  and   so
preoccupied   with  pleasing  others  and  meeting   other
people's expectations;  that they neglect/ignore their own
rights,   and may even think that it is improper to  think
about one's own rights.

     We  are sick if we neglect/ignore our own rights,  or
if  we  think that it is improper to think about  our  own
rights.     We   may   have  fallen  into  the   trap   of
thinking/feeling   that  it  is  improper  for  us  to  be
reflexive  (non-objective)  and to feel good about our own
successes.   Yet,  if we do not have a protected right  to
feel  good  about our own successes  (which  includes  the
right  to be free to succeed),  how are we to wisely guide
our behavior away from failures and towards success?   How
are  we to learn from our mistakes if we have no right  to
feel  good  about our own successes?   In the  absence  of
healthy protected rights regarding success,  we are  prone
to   engage  in repeated failures  including  failures  to
learn from failures.

     If  other people do not protect our rights to be true
to our selves,  to be free to succeed and to enjoy our own
success;   then we are unlikely to enjoy  success.    This
clearly means that we have a responsibility to protect the
rights of other people to be true to their real selves, to
be  free  to succeed,  and to enjoy their  own  successes.
Each  of  us  is one of the  "others"   who  must  protect
people's  rights to be true to themselves,  to be free  to
succeed, and to enjoy their own success.   If we each fail
to  protect other people's rights;  we will all suffer the
consequences  of  our  failures to  protect  each  other's
rights.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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