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      %GENUINE TRANSCEND COLLUDE TABOO SEX RELIGION 910916

     After the members of a collusive community  genuinely
transcend  a  community  taboo  they are  not  preoccupied
with   the taboo  in either fascination or in fear;    the
taboo  ceases  to  be  a major focus  of concern to  them.
They have more important  ways  in  which the focus  their
attention    in  getting  to  know  each  other  honestly,
intimately and  with both personal and communal integrity.

     If    members    of   a   collusive   community   are
struggling   to  transcend   a  taboo,    they  are  still
preoccupied  with   the  focus of the  taboo,   in  either
fascination or in fear.  They may  go to great lengths  to
violate  the taboo in  symbolic action/protest.  They  may
brood   upon   the  focus  of  the   taboo   in    private
fascination,    but  yet  do not dare  to   express  their
interest publicly.   They may work hard at pretending that
their  tacit violations of the taboo have not  been,   are
not  now,   and will not ever become evident.   They  will
pretend not to be working hard at pretending, etc.

     In   genuine  transcendence  of  a  taboo  there   is
no preoccupation which is guided by the taboo.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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