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%LETTING GO RELAX ACCEPT MESSENGER TRUE DESCRIPTION 910626

     For  each  of the following we need to learn to relax
and accept without rejective/alienative judgement:

     1.  True   descriptions  which  threaten  the   false
appearance-of-integrity      of      our       collusions,
addictions    and codependencies.

     2.  Messengers   who   honestly  bring  to  us   true
descriptions  which   threaten  the  false  appearance-of-
integrity    of     our   collusions,    addictions    and
codependencies.

     3.  Our   inability  to repress with  true  integrity
the  expression   of true descriptions which threaten  the
false    appearance-of-integrity   of   our    collusions,
addictions and codependencies.

     4.  Ourselves,   even though we are unable to repress
with  integrity   the  expression  of  true   descriptions
which threaten   the   false  appearance-of-integrity   of
our collusions, addictions and codependencies.

     We will continue to be tense, strained, under stress,
ill-at-ease,  dis-eased,  sick,  unhealthy,  and the  like
--- so  long   as   we   believe   and   act   dishonestly
within  our collusions,  addictions and codependencies  as
if:

     1.  We    have   an   ultimate   responsibility    to
repress,   confuse,   reject  and  otherwise  prevent  the
expression  of    true  descriptions   which   call   into
question     the  integrity     of     our     collusions,
addictions    and codependencies.

     2.  We     have   an  ultimate   responsibility    to
judgmentally  reject,   excommunicate,  shun,   avoid  and
otherwise  alienate  messengers  whose  true  descriptions
embarrass   us   because  they   call  into  question  the
integrity    of    our    collusions,    addictions    and
codependencies.

     3.  We should be able to repress with true  integrity
the  expression   of true descriptions which threaten  the
false    appearance-of-integrity   of   our    collusions,
addictions and codependencies.

     4.  We   ourselves   are   unacceptable,    unworthy,
unlovable  and  properly  rejectable if we are  unable  to
repress  with  true integrity   the  expression  of   true
descriptions   which embarrass  us because  they  threaten
the  false   appearance-of-integrity  of  our  collusions,
addictions and codepend-tendencies.

     The  process   of  relaxing  the  mandates   of   our
dishonest collusions,   addictions and codependencies is a
difficult and painful process.

     Our collusions,  addictions and codependencies  place
upon us  false  burdens  which  we think we  cannot   live
without; burdens which the meek and lowly threaten to lift
from  our  backs    as  peacemakers   who   through   true
descriptions  threaten   to show us how to use  the  light
yoke  of  truth  to bear   the  true  burdens   of   being
honest  people   and communities of integrity.

     When   we are so threatened by Love with  the  truth,
we  are  prone   to reject and crucify  the   embarrassing
messengers   who  offer  to  us  the  embarrassingly  true
descriptions which threaten   the  false  appearances   of
our   collusions, addictions and codependencies.

     Our service to our idolatrous collusions,  addictions
and  codependencies   is  killing us  by  undermining  our
personal and communal integrity.

     It   is   time to let go of our  compulsive  feelings
that  we must be dishonest to live well.

     We  need to learn to truly accept ourselves and  each
other  while   learning  to accept  Gracefully  the  Good-
Messages and Messengers of True Love.

     Such Good Messages and Messengers come to us from God
the  Creative  One  who Makes all things and peoples Truly
New through the sacrificially true services of Love.

    It  is  not easy to learn to  trust  people  who
learn   to  accept   themselves  and  us  while   learning
to     accept  Gracefully   the  Good-Messages   and   the
Messengers    of    True  Love   which    threatens    our
collusions,   addictions  and codependencies.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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