This is http://www.essayz.com/a9105071.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DEFEND DISHONEST DISINTEGRATIVE DECEPTIVE BEHAVIOR 910507 Dishonest behavior is usually part of a pattern of many other behaviors which are often associated with dishonest behavior. When we see any part of the full pattern of associated behaviors, it is well for us to examine to see if other parts of the usual pattern are appearing with the dishonest behavior. When people defend behavior which is dishonest, deceptive, misleading, coercive, manipulative and/or confusing; we need to observe and discuss: (1) In terms of what values, ideals, goals, etc. is the defense offered? (2) Is the defense made in open, public and candid ways; or it is covert, tacit, misleading, hidden, and secretive in its manner? (3) Is the defense offered in the interest of protecting private selfish considerations on behalf of one or a few people, or a special favored minority; or is it offered on behalf of the integrity of the whole community? (4) Are the people who offer the defense interested in discussing the long term effects of the behavior which is defended; or are they interested only in the short term benefits to a limited number of favored people? (5) Is there a clear recognition of the multitude of ways in which consequences of behaviors affect all members of a community. (6) Are the people who are engaged in dishonest behavior, and in the defense of dishonest behavior, seeking to exercise control over other people; or are they seeking to share power and authority in a balanced way? (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================