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    %ULTIMATE ANXIETY THREAT REJECT TENSION DISEASE 910506

     Many of  our  dis-eases  come  from  the  threats  we
experience and which cause us to feel that we must conform
in  certain   vaguely  defined  ways;   else  we  will  be
rejected, excommunicated,  dis-fellowshipped,  etc.   Such
perceived  threats   are effectively threats to our  whole
being,     our survival.   We are bound to take them  very
seriously; and so they make us ultimately anxious,  tense,
up-tight,   dis-eased.

     We need  to do all we can to avoid causing others  to
experience threats which cause them to feel that they must
conform  in certain vaguely defined ways;  else they  will
be  rejected,  excommunicated,  dis-fellowshipped.    Such
threats may  be  experienced through neglect of   counter-
balancing  efforts,    as well as  through  overt  threats
issued.      Fear feeds on itself,   and we and others may
see threats  where none  have  been issued---if we do  not
see   clear   signals that threats are not  being  issued.
Thus  positive signals may  be essential to preventing the
reception  of   negative signals.    There needs to  be  a
clear  positive signal which is stronger than the  "noise"
signal,   else  some people will pick  up   out   of   the
"noise", signals  which  they  will perceive as threats.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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