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   %ISSUE CONFRONT DISHONEST PRETENSE RIGHT CONTROL 910422

     When another person engages in the pretense that they
have  the right,  the duty,  the obligation,   and/or  the
ability and power to control you;  there is a conflict and
the  issue  of  whether  or not to make an  issue  of  the
pretense.      There   is  the  question   of   how   most
integratively to deal with the conflict between the  truth
and  the pretense.   To acquiesce is to become part of the
dishonest  pretense.   To make a confrontational  response
may  not  be the most integrative response.   To  fail  to
confront the dishonesty may itself be participation in the
dishonesty.

     There is a  need for us to participate in  open  and
honest dialogue  about  how to deal with the above  issues
before they arise.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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