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 %SEEK SECURITY PERMANENT INTIMATE RELATION CONTROL 910103

     It  is  futile  to seek security in  trying  to  make
our  present    satisfying    intimate       relationships
into  permanent  unchanging  relationships,   for  in  the
process   of   trying    to   control     the   satisfying
relationship  it  is destroyed.     Seeking  the  security
of   the familiar  by trying   to prevent  change   brings
about  changes   which destroy   the  satisfaction   which
was  to    have   been preserved.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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