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 %RECOGNIZE ANALYZE DISHONEST PATTERN BEHAVIOR LOVE 901018

     A    compulsive  preoccupation  with   analysis   and
objectivity  plays  a  role  in  keeping people  who   are
addicted  to analysis  and  objectivity  from  recognizing
their    own  reflexive  dishonest  patterns  of  behavior
which blind them to what they are doing.

     Isolated   small  events in the behaviors of  people,
when taken  individually,   may not appear to be dishonest
and  disintegrative;     yet when recognized as part of  a
global  pattern   of  behaviors  which  are  part   of   a
system  of collusive games of mutual self deception,   the
individual  behaviors   may  be recognized  as  parts   of
disintegrative   dishonesty.     The  significance  of  an
individual  behavior cannot  be  recognized  in  isolation
from the  pattern  of which  it is a part.   No amount  of
fragmentive analysis of an  individual  action or behavior
will   disclose  how  it relates  to a whole which  cannot
be  recognized  because   of an   exclusive  concern  with
discovering  the internal  parts of any reality  which  is
immediately under consideration.

     It   is not enough to find the internal parts of what
is in front  of us.  Often it is essential to find out how
that  which   is  in  front of us is a part of  a   global
pattern  which    is    not   yet   disclosed    to    our
conscious considerations;    i.e.,   not yet part of human
science and consciousness.

     We  may need to see what is behind us as part of  our
total  context.  Collusive games of mutual self  deception
are patterns of hidden behaviors which act to hide  truths
which  would  disclose  the dishonesty  of  our  collusive
games.  To reveal the dishonesty of our collusive games of
mutual self deception we must consciously seek to find how
our  apparently isolated behaviors participate in patterns
which are larger than we are, and in terms of which we may
discern the meaning of our own behaviors.  We often do not
know, and do not want to know, the meaning of our own past
behaviors;   for such knowledge would reveal that  we  are
participants  in disintegrative collusions which we cannot
openly and honestly defend.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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