This is http://www.essayz.com/a9005291.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %COLLUSION CONTROL PLEASURE JOY AFFECTION ADDICT 900529 For an addictive collusion to survive it must control the well-springs of motivations which might lead people to see through the dishonesty of the collusion. For a collusion to survive it must dominate (control) all thought processes in a systematically dishonest way. Any source of motivation which might lead people away from the systematically dishonest way, must be taboo for the collusion to survive. Any source of pleasure, joy, satisfaction or fulfillment which might lead people to choose any but the collusions' systematically dishonest logic is a threat. All forms of authentic intimacy, affection and sexual relationships are a threat to the systematic control which addictive collusions have over their participants; for they all are grounded in honesty, and collusions are grounded in dishonesty. Thus it is that collusions operate in ways which undermine authenticity wherever there are intimate, affective and/or sexual relationships: replacing authenticity with authority, intimacy with objectivity, affection with affectation, and spontaneous sexuality with conventional proprieties. Every behavior must be under control of the dishonest logic of the collusion. There must be no cracks in the armor. All must appear to be proper and in fulfillment of respected ideals; even if then there is no intimacy, no affection and no fulfillment in sexual relationships. Only then can the collusion survive. It is irrelevant that people do not feel like surviving, and do not feel that they are surviving. It is irrelevant that global war is threatened in the name of security and that the global ecosystem is disintegrating, for despite all this the collusion is surviving, and our survival depends on its survival, or so it seems. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================