This is http://www.essayz.com/a9005233.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %SIMPLIFICATION ACCEPT COMPLEX RELATIONSHIPS SELF 900523 Often we are expected to present over simplifications of complex relationships in an effort to get others to understand the complex relationships. The suggestion is that simple people cannot be expected to understand complicated systems of relationships. Often the reason people do not understand much is that they as addicts choose not to deal with the truth. It is not always complexity which is avoided, but the truth. Many people who do not want to deal with the truth, deal instead with exceedingly complicated technical relationships; as a means of avoiding the truth. By spending all of their time on highly respected technocratic procedures, they avoid honestly dealing with the real issues around which the technocratic procedures set up a concealing smoke screen. What appear to be complicated personal relationships to a technocrat, become simple to understand once one is really committed to dealing with the truths about one's own personal relationships in an open and honest way. Within the technocratic paradigm there is a tendency to treat inter-personal relationships as being so complicated as to be beyond understanding. Such relationships are beyond analytic reductionist understanding which is designed to avoid truths regarding the limitations of the technocratic paradigm. To honest people such relationships are not beyond understanding. This is why simple people often understand and participate in intimate personal relationships more clearly and more honestly than do sophisticated technocrats. Compulsively objective technocrats cannot permit themselves such clear and honest participation and/or understanding; for they would thereby violate their technocratic taboos. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================