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   %PUNISH MISTAKE CONTROL OPEN HONEST LEARN EXPOSE 891224

     Given  a context in which people who admit to  having
made  a mistake are punished for making the mistake,   and
those  who conceal successfully having made a mistake  are
not  punished:   therein people will try to conceal  their
mistakes  and keep others from publicly pointing to  their
mistakes. Friends will cover for each other.  Enemies will
seek to expose each other;  and perverted lessons will  be
learned.

     Given  a  context in which people who  make  mistakes
openly  admit  to and learn from their  mistakes  and  are
respected  for that,  and those who  conceal  successfully
having  made a mistake are constructively criticized  when
their  concealment  comes to light:  therein  people  will
openly admit to and together learn from their mistakes and
be careful not to be guilty of concealment.  Friends  will
cooperate  in learning from mistakes.  Enemies  will  seek
ways   to   cooperate  in  resolving   conflicts   through
unconditionally constructive behaviors.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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