This is http://www.essayz.com/a8912121.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %OBJECTIFICATION DESCRIPTION RELATIONSHIPS PERSON 891212 Objectification and depersonalization may occur through the process of trying to fully describe intimate personal relationships in objective ways. The essence of intimate personal relationships lie in the relationships, not in the objects which participate in the relationships. By their nature, personal relationships are reflexive and so are not objective realities in the way which objects are objective realities. It is futile to try to capture the essence of relationships in the way in which the essences of objects may be captured. The essence of objects lies in the impersonal relationships between objects and impersonal observers. To try to capture the essence of an object in an objective description of the object (which description ignores the impersonal observer who is describing the object) is for the impersonal observer to fail to be honest about the role played by the impersonal observer in creating the so- called objective reality, which reality is subjectively projected into the object. To treat people as objective realities rather than as participants in intimate personal relationships is to dishonestly objectify and depersonalize people as objects of the process of depersonalization. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================