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%VERBAL LANGUAGE CONTROL MANAGE MANIPULATE PERCEIVE 891119

     Experience  and  perception may be controlled by  the
way verbal language is (and is not) used.

     Control  may  occur  through the  use  of  a  limited
vocabulary  which  limits  the range  of  perceptions  and
experiences  which are permitted to occur at the conscious
level.

     Control may occur through the use of verbal  commands
and  signals  which threaten persons,   experiences,   and
perceptions beyond the range of some conformal boundary.

     Control   may   occur  through the  predominance   of
verbal  message  and  signals  which  dominate  attention,
perceptions and experience; by drawing attention away from
persons,  experiences, and perceptions beyond the range of
some conformal boundary.

     Dominance may occur by the failure to make use of  as
wide  a range of means of communication as might be  used;
by failing to be openly and honestly expressive/responsive
through body language, affection, touch, movement, stance,
sexuality,  eye-contact; i.e., dominance through exclusion
and absence.

     Dominance    may   occur   by  the   denigration   of
perceptions  and experience which are pointed to by  means
of  an  authorized  means  of  communication;   e.g.,   by
denigration  of  all  that is referred  to  by  non-verbal
languages.

     All such dominance and control achieved by  addictive
and  codependent processes needs to be recognized for what
it is,  and dealt with openly and honestly for what it is.
Else we will be the victims of coercions which do not lead
to personal and/or communal integrity.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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