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    %COLLUSION GUIDE LEAD FIRST IMPRESSIONS REALITY 890530

     Most people are lead by their first impressions; they
do not carefully seek to look behind first impressions  to
discover  whatever  may  be  leading  them  to  get  false
impressions.

     First impressions can be skillfully manipulated  even
if  not  fully controlled.  Through manipulation of  first
impressions people can be led to believe, perceive,  feel,
and behave in ways chosen by the manipulators.

     Many people like to believe their first  impressions.
To  look behind first impressions may expose  embarrassing
mistakes  previously made;  e.g.,  having been  misled  by
previous  first impressions.  People who like  to  believe
their first impressions, are vulnerable to manipulation by
skillfully  manipulated first impressions;  i.e.,  by  the
manipulators of first impressions.

     Participants  in collusions are skillful manipulators
of first impressions. They do not so much tell overt lies,
as   mislead   people   by  the  manipulation   of   first
impressions.

     First  impressions  need to be discussed  openly  and
honestly  in public dialogue.  Efforts need to be made  to
avoid offering and accepting misleading first impressions.
Games  of mutual self deception need to be exposed so that
wise  informed  decisions  can be made  on  the  basis  of
lessons learned from previous mistakes,  even if they were
embarrassing mistakes.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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