This is http://www.essayz.com/a8902222.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %WISE AUTO REGULATE SELF ASSESS JUDGE REJECT 890222 Wise people assess the consequences of their habits of heart and mind, and of their behaviors, without falling into the trap of passing rejective judgement upon themselves as persons. Wise people succeed in regulating their behavior in the light of meditation upon past consequences; without being compulsively preoccupied with the past and their mistakes as signs of their being unworthy of acceptance. Wise people pray for both personal and communal integrity in the light of their personal and communal experiences; taking into consideration the consequences of their own assumptions, attitudes, beliefs, convictions, etc. and how they have related to those of other people and processes. In prayer and meditation they seek integrity in the light of experience openly and honestly considered. Prayer is the door through which wise people escape from the collusions, addictions and codependence of their families, churches, schools, professions, businesses and nations. Prayer is the way to personal and communal integrity. Prayer is not the projection of one's own desires upon the cosmos. That concept of the nature of prayer is a confusion which is one aspect of collusions, addictions and codependence. In authentic prayer it becomes clear which desires lead the way to integrity, and which desires lead the way to personal and communal disintegration. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================