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   %UNCONTROLLED FULFILLMENT ENJOYMENT ADDICTS DUTY 890114

     The wise enjoy seeing people be fulfilled in  actions
which are not under the control of others. The wise do not
seek to control other people.

     Some  people feel compelled to seek  their  enjoyment
through the control of others. They are troubled by seeing
people  be  fulfilled in actions which are not  under  the
control of others.  They envy others' enjoyment which they
do not control or share in,  and seek to obtain it through
control;  as if it could be owned,  be a possession.  Some
people  act  as  if  joy must  be  obtained  only  through
specific   prescribed  procedures;   that  enjoyment   not
obtained through those limited prescribed procedures  must
be  evil  and  should  be  repressed  through  appropriate
controls.   They  fear  enjoyment which  is  not  properly
controlled, for such enjoyment threatens their world view.

     The  God of Love is not known for efforts to  control
people. The God of Love is known for seeking to set people
free to be themselves in honest and humble service; not in
dishonest authoritarian control and the exercise of power.
God does not enjoy being in control,  and there is  little
real joy to be found in trying to be in control of others.

     The  wise enjoy seeing people be fulfilled in actions
which are not under the control of others. The wise do not
seek to control other people.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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