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   %DEVELOPMENT INTEGRATIVE ATTITUDE RESPONSIBILITY 881230

     It    is  often  difficult  to  avoid  slipping  into
language use which is misleading.    Often people who  are
seeking  to behave responsibly slip into the attitude that
they  have  a  responsibility  to  control,    discipline,
manage,  take charge, etc.   Their sense of responsibility
often   extends  to  trying  to  control  other   people's
attitudes,  thoughts,  feelings,  private behaviors,   and
communications.

     It   is important to develop  integrative  attitudes,
but  such  responsible  development does not  entail   any
degree    of  control  which  is  coercive   or   violent.
Integrity is not promoted  through  coercion or  violence,
but   through gentle educement;    through gentle  leading
which  is consistent with personal integrity.

     Some words  lead users of the words  into   attitudes
which   entail  efforts  to control people who can  not be
controlled.    It is important to be careful about the use
of   such   misleading   words.     The   hidden  possible
implications     of     such    words    as:      control,
management, discipline,   responsibility, duty,  morality,
etc.  need to be   brought   out   into   the  open,    so
that     the different  implications   of  them  regarding
integrity  can be seen and openly discussed.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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