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This is http://www.essayz.com/a8812111.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %POSSIBLE HONEST RECOVER ADDICT COLLUSION ESCAPE 881211 All the following factors contribute to the difficulty which addicts, codependent and colluders have in enjoying recovery from their common disease: The disease begins with and so is rooted in childhood attitudes and habitual behaviors which are encouraged by parents, school, church, business and government. The disease involves systematic deceptions which conceal the disease and embarrasses recovery from the disease. The disease is a communal game of mutual manipulations with rules which conceal themselves through the enforcement of the rules by the players who cannot safely articulate the rules openly and honestly. Perfectionists who play the games of the disease can not honestly admit to the systemic imperfections which characterize the disease. Those who are the victims of the disease can not learn from their mistakes because they are not free to admit to making mistakes. The disease generates confused conceptions of the nature of reality and the disease. The notions of what is possible and what is impossible are confused. Those who have the disease covertly transmit it to those who have not yet become victims of it; concealing the manner of transmission from all involved. Many people who are victims of the disease have accomplished much and control much that elicits respect by people who have not yet become victims of the disease. The disease is not rooted in objective causes, even though many apparently objective causes of the disease divert attention away from the central non- objective features of the disease. The disease cannot be cured by objective experts working within the paradigm of the standard medical model which depends upon intervention and control by objective medical experts. Those who try to take control and try to eliminate the destructive consequences of the disease through controlling behaviors are themselves participants in the in the process of the disease. Scientists cannot understand, predict and control the progress of the disease because the behaviors of most scientists are part of the disease: effectively dealing with the disease cannot be objective in nature, cannot be scientific. The words which are used in discussing the consequences of the disease have meanings which have been confused by the disease in such a way as to obscure differences which, if seen, might expose the disease to revealing insights by victims of the disease. The disease has focused attention upon disintegrative values and ideals, and so has undermined the foundation of the personal and communal integrity which are essential to coping with the disease. Even leaders in the philosophical, theological and religious communities have succumbed to and been seduced by the manipulative efforts which are characteristic of those controlled by the disease. The disease is both personal and communal in ways which interact back and forth so that the disease cannot be dealt with as just a personal disease; it must be dealt with as both a personal and communal disease. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================