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   %ADDICTIVE CODEPENDENT COLLUSION VIOLATE HONESTY 880921

     Participants in collusions are obligated by the rules
of  the  collusion  to do all that they can do  to  defend
their  collusion against all possible actions which  might
undermine   their  collusion.    The  collusions  is  what
provides the whole context for their whole life.  They can
not conceive of survival without the collusion and what it
provides.    Nothing  is too valuable,  sacred,   holy  or
essential  to be sacrificed in defense of their collusion.
It is their God.

     People who are open and honest with each other  might
in  intimacy  share  doubts  about the  integrity  of  the
collusion  and  its defenders.   Such lovers might  invite
others  to be open and honest with them about the lack  of
integrity   of  the  collusion  and  of   its   defenders.
Supporters of the collusion must by their logic take steps
to  minimize  all  openness  and  honesty  in  all   human
meetings,  public or private.   To achieve such grand ends
takes  comprehensive  means  and  a  willingness  to  make
unlimited sacrifices.

     The  purpose  of the colluders can be served only  by
undermining  the possibility of openness and  honesty  by:
(1)    Subverting  the  language  as  to  vocabulary   and
structure,  (2) Desensitizing people to their own feelings
and insights, (3)  Downplaying the importance of all forms
of   intimate  personal  communication,   (4)    Replacing
consideration of  ultimate  purposes with consideration of
ultimate   technologies,    (5)  Undermining people's self
esteem so that they  become more  and  more dependent upon
the assertions  of the collusion, (6) Generating confusion
of all kinds, etc.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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