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 %OPEN AND HONEST ABOUT PERSONAL SEXUAL EXPERIENCES 880528

     Authentic   sexual  experiences  are  not  under  the
control of our games of mutual self deception.   We cannot
be  open and honest about our personal sexual  experiences
when we choose  to maintain our  collusive games of mutual
self deception.  When we cannot  be open and honest we can
not  enjoy authentic sexual experiences,  and we  can  not
converse  about  the  inadequacies of  our  actual  sexual
experiences---and so cannot  transcend those inadequacies.

     Honest conversation about personal sexual experiences
would   expose   the  taboos which help  to  maintain  our
collusions.   Honest  conversation about the  taboos   and
collusions  are taboo in  order to protect the taboos  and
collusions  from  careful  examination   in   the    light
of    the   disintegrative consequences of the taboos  and
collusions.

     We cannot  be honest with ourselves about our  sexual
experiences  if we are not free to be open and honest with
others about our personal sexual experiences.   We  choose
to repress the consciousness of our lack of integrity into
our  subconsciousness,   rather than try to deal with  the
lack  of   integrity   between  our  own  subconsciousness
and   our conversations.    In  our  subconsciousness  the
lack   of integrity does violence to  our souls and  leads
us to act violently.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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