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        %HEALING A COLLUSIVE TABOO RIDDEN COMMUNITY 870424

     A   community  which  has  lost  its  real  unity  in
collusive  behavior is in need of healing activities which
will  help  the  community in unity  to  restore  communal
members.  Positive creative steps need to be taken in such
a  community to restore health to behavior patterns  which
have  long  been lead by collusive games and their  taboos
designed  to  control feared behavior.   When  fear  rules
integrity declines.   Members of such a community need  to
be  released  from the rule of fear.   Discovery  requires
careful leading by  creative people who see the way out of
the prisons built by collusive behavior rooted in fear.

     Fearful people who lack self esteem try  to eliminate
their fears by attempting to control feared things in such
a way as to overcome their fears.  They believe that their
fears  originate  in  objective  realities  which  may  be
controlled through understanding,  prediction and control.
They seek knowledge of good, evil, and technology in order
to gain control over good, evil and technology as means to
controlling  their  fears.    Such people  reject (and  so
alienate) any others who fail to conform to their programs
of  control.   Their lack of self esteem is rooted in such
rejections  by  fearful  people;  thus they  perpetuate  a
tragic  feed-back  loop  which  blinds  its  victims   and
imprisons them in collusive games of mutual self deception
in which the least biased kind of  knowledge  is objective
manipulative  knowledge by which objects  and  objectified
persons may be controlled.

     So  long as fear controls the lives of  such  people,
they  seek to gain control of their fears by attempting to
control other people and life processes.   They as addicts
can  not admit that they can not control that  which  they
seek  to  control.   They can not receive help until  they
admit that they can  not be in control and that they would
be  healthier with a generous measure of humility and  the
freedom   to   be  vulnerable   in   meaningful   intimate
relationships.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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