This is http://www.essayz.com/a8703303.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %TABOOS AGAINST EVIDENCE & REASONING LOVE 870330 Collusions are reflexive systems for defending games of mutual self deception against evidence and reasoning which is love-grounded in personal experience and dialogue. Participants in collusions do not appeal to personal experience and logically analyzed evidence in free and open discussion---to confirm the value of their way of approaching situations. They are not willing to openly and honestly discuss possible alternatives to discover the most coherent and integrative ones. Participants in collusions act in ways to repress the gathering evidence and analytic skills which might expose their games of mutual self deception. Their lives are guided by fear. They are often addicted to one means or another of defending themselves against what they fear due to the ignorance which they maintain through their defense of their collusion. People who are addicted to alcohol, tobacco, caffeine, drugs, work, food, sex, weapons, etc. are participants in collusive games of mutual self deception. They do not seek unbiased evidence and experience in terms of which to discover the truth. The thing they fear most is the discovery of the truth that they are playing games of mutual self deception, because they are not familiar with the realities of forgiveness, reconciliation, redemption, and love's commitment to open and honest dialogue in the search for truths which reflect upon openly shared intimate experiences. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================