Alienative-Duties and other forms of Tragedies, Disfunctionalities, Diseases, Addictions - - - often focus upon: Negations Oppositions Contentions Fights Violence Battles Conflicts Tensions Failures We cannot Mitigate our own kinds of such Alienative-Realities by engaging in Even-More Such-Alienative-Realities - - - while under-the-cloud of the assumption that MORE-of-the-same-kind of Alienative-Reality WILL-SOLVE-our-DILEMMAS-with ALL Alienative-Realities! To mitigate our own kinds of Alienative-Realities we need to focus upon Reconciling-Activities of many COMPLEMENTARY KIND Kinds-of-REALITIES: AFFIRMATIONS COOPERATIONS COLABORATIONS COORDINATIONS DIALOGUES HONESTY HOSPITALITY GENEROSITY TOLERANCE LISTENING EMPATHY SYMPATHY SENSITIVITY KINDNESS GENTLENESS HEALINGS RECONCILIATIONS RELAXATIONS MEDITATIONS REFLECTIONS RESTING OPENNESS WELCOMES CREATIVITY INTEGRITIES INTEGRATIONS AUTHENTICITIES DIPLOMACY SUSTAINABILITY FLEXIBILITY HUMILITY MODESTY CONSERVATION PRUDENCE TOLERANCE SUSTAINABILITY ========================================================================================================================================================= Be-Together within Shalom's Sanctuaries Discerning through Open-and-Honest-Dialogues What-IS and What-is-NOT ESSENTIAL-TO-CIVIL-CIVILIZATIONS!