Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters cannot WIN their Collusive-Games of Mutual-Self-Deception - - - without performing some very unusual and difficult ALIENATIVE-TRANSFORMATIONS on some versions of the following Essential-Realities of each Long-Term-Sustainable-Civilization: Self-Esteem Reflexivity Reflexive-Relationships Meditation Prayers Systems-Analyses Objectivity Thinking Reasoning Cooperation Collaboration Democracy Justice Hospitality Generosity Acceptance Mutuality Balance Welcomes Respect Integrity Authenticity Honesty Honor Unity Coherence Peace Shalom Health-Care Healing Diplomacy Negotiations Reconciliation Openness Honesty Listening Dialogues Agreements Descriptions Science Technology Building Imagination Visioning Music Dance Poetry Singing Symphonies Ballets Paintings Photography Patience Endurance Modesty Humility Etc. When Domineering-Bullies and mobbing-Mobsters have performed Alienative-Transformations on the above kinds of realities; they have undermined the Long-Term-Sustainability of the Civilization of which they are Dominant-Parts; and they KNOW-NOT what they have done. They then cannot heal the damage that they have done. They cannot be true to their Life-Styles, Ideals, Values, Principles, and Grounds for hope - - - that led them to do what they have done; and they have no ground for hope left. For them, Shalom is Impossible! They may conclude that Life-Can Have-NO-Meaning, and that SUICIDE IS A possible prudent-course-of-action; -> -> -> BUT TRUE-LOVERS OFFER MORE HOPEFUL COURSES OF ACTION! --> - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - For TRUE-LOVERS it is clear that a Meaningful-SUSTAINABLE-CIVILIZATION IS-POSSIBLE through Personal-and-Communal Present-Integrities that-are Authentic - - - and through Communal-and-Personal Integration-Processes that revolve around SAFE Regular-Open-and-Honest Intimate-Dialogues within - - - Shalom's-Sanctuaries where it IS SAFE to take Gracious-Well-Informed-Risks in efforts to Mitigate Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts. Preoccupations with our own Egocentric: Invulnerability, Security, Possessions, and Concentrations of Wealth-and-Powers - - - Mislead US into Futile-Paths that Dead-End Without-Hope. HOWEVER - - - -> Focusing upon Gracious-Ways to Help-Each-Other-To- Contribute to the SUSTAINABILITY of our Global Civilization - - - leads US all into Hopeful-Paths that lead into EXPANDING-AUTHENTIC-HOPES-FOR-ALL. Preoccupations with Egocentric: Invulnerability, Security, Possessions, Ownership and Concentrations-of-Power-and-Wealth - - - LEAD-US-ALL in the Deadly-Alienative-Ways of Domineering-Bullies, Mobbing-Mobsters and Military-Industrial-Congressional-COMPLEXES who are engaged in UNILATERAL-ALIENATIVE-ACTIONS by presumably "superior" people who destroy the budding Integrities of presumably "inferior" people who have been disadvantaged and PUT-DOWN by Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters who DO-NOT-SEEK to-be-seen as: RELIABLY:Authentic, Friendly, Kind, Gracious, Hospitable, Generous, Honest, Thoughtful, Well-Informed, Trust-Worthy, Empathetic, Sympathetic, Flexible, Robust, etc. HOWEVER --> There is HOPE in Kind-Trust-Worthy Fellow-Crew-Members within God's ASTRONOMICALLY tiny-and-isolated BLUE-SPHERICAL-SPACE-SHIP-EARTH with its cooled-thin-crust that is only about TEN KILOMETERS thick; compared to the 12,800 KILOMETERS-IN-DIAMETER RED-HOT "MOLTEN" ball around which the thin crust is moved by the internal RED-HOT flows of "molten" lava. ALL of The limited-available-material-resources are ALL WITHIN the thin crust. There is no "scheduled" re-supply ship that will ever come to re-supply this ASTRONOMICALLY tiny-and-isolated BLUE-SPHERICAL-SPACE-SHIP, that is traveling with one energy-rich warming-star through the unimaginably: VAST-and-COLD COSMIC-VACUUMS that are pervaded by speed-of- light sub-atomic Cosmic-ray-Bullets that penetrate mortal's space-ships-and-bodies in deadly-ways. YET: Kind-Trust-Worthy True-Lovers can work-together-honestly to make their civilization more-sustainable; by dealing openly-and-honestly in cooperative-ways with their actual circumstances - - - in the light of Objective-and-Reflexive Systems-Analyses of their actual-circumstances within-which they can SUSTAIN a OVERALL-HEALTHY GRACIOUS-CIVILIZATION where all crew-members' Most-Basic-and-Healthy-Needs are Uniformly-Met with Generous-and-Hospitable Health-Care by people who are: Sensitive, Thoughtful, Empathetic and Sympathetic in LOVE; which is Long-Term-Enduring in Shalom's Sanctuaries of LOVE. ========================================================================================================================================================================================= Be-Together within Shalom's Sanctuaries Discerning through Open-and-Honest-Dialogues What-IS and What-is-Not ESSENTIAL-TO-CIVILITY-AND-TRUE-CIVILIZATIONS!