Part of the ALIENATIVE-STRATEGY of DOMINEERING-BULLIES is to ISOLATE-PEOPLE whom they which to control - - - from the following kinds of realities: New-Ideas New-Ideals New-Friends New-Forms-of-Intimacy New-Means-for-them-to-Integrate New-Perspectives New-Understandings New-Ways New-Lovers New-Truths Alternative-Perspectives Travel-to-New-Cultures Vacations/Rest New-Books-and-Essays Sanctuaries-of-Shalom Integrities Integrative-Processes Modalities-of-Thinking Covenants Collaboration Coordination Understanding Sexuality Personal-Integrity Communal-Integrity Generosity Distributive-Justice To the extent that Humans WIN - - - Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception They become Alienated from Each-Other and Alienated-from-God WHO is LOVE Be-Aware and Beware - - - in Gracious-Ways!