Domineering-Bullies seek to appear-to-be: Involved in Honorable-Activities, In Control of Honorable-Activities, Able to be In-Control of Honorable-Activities, Responsive With-Integrity, Exclusively-Powerful With-Integrity, Most-Wealth With-Integrity, When-they-are-NOT! True-Lovers are willing to take careful-prudent-risks that they well-understand - - - in the Service-of-Love - - - to help people to Mitigate Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Domineering-Bullies (who are seeking to be Unilaterally-Invulnerable) cannot understand the Coherent-Motivations of True-Lovers (within Shalom's-Ways-of-Love) who are violating Bullies'-Prime-Directives - - - As-True-Lovers called to Help-Vulnerable-Poor-People - - - to Mitigate their own Alienative-Conflicts - - - even though doing so makes them seem-to-be Intolerably-Vulnerable - - - to Domineering-Bullies - - - who cannot see clearly any true love. Domineering-Bullies who only dimly understand the Logic-of-True-Lovers (within Shalom's-Ways-of-Love) get the false- impression, that it is necessary to take extreme-crazy-risks to-be-admirable. (Being-Admirable to Domineering- Bullies, is still a Big-Deal to such Confused-Domineering-Bullies In-Transition.) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ In-Fact; Mature-True-Lovers who are together in Shalom's Ways-of-Love - - - can see that what they are doing to help poor and vulnerable people to Mitigate Their-Own-Conflicts - - - is far more SUSTAINABLE with moderate-risks-to-them - - - than what presumably-invulnerable Domineering-Bullies are Arrogantly-Doing with their eyes shut - - - to Try-To-Be Totally-Invulnerable - - - in Totally-Non-Sustainable-Ways! Domineering-Bullies Cannot-see-Clearly anything that they are doing in their Non-Sustainable Dishonest-Life-Styles of: Violence, Coercion and Trying-To-WIN their pathetic Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception! Shalom! True-Lovers (within Love's-Ways-of-Shalom) are free to ( Thoughtfully-Within-Informed-Ways ) Let-Go of Pretentions- of-Invulnerability - - - Because their Eyes are Wide-Open, Rather than closed in Trying-To-WIN, Collusive-Games-of-Mutual Self-Deception, That lead people to Louse-Touch-with-Realities. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Domineering-Bullies (in their Greedy-Ways-of-Fear-and-Terrors) Are trapped to (Thoughtlessly-Within Confused-Ways) Cling-To Pretentions-of-Invulnerability: Because their Egos are Closed-Tightly-Shut to Outside-Realities - - - In Compulsive-Efforts of Trying-to-WIN - - - Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - - That Lead-People to Louse-Touch with Outside-Realities - - - Which are Outside-of-their-Pretentions-of-Control. Domineering-Bullies Life-Styles are NOT-SUSTAINABLE! Domineering-Bullies' civilizations are not sustainable. SHALOM! THINK! Be Graciously-Together in Shalom's-Sanctuaries! Be Graciously-Engaged in Open-and-Honest-Dialogues!