True-Lovers who are seeking to Cooperate in Mitigating Alienative-Conflicts will seek to avoid taking-sides-in-conflicts - - - other-than in Conflicts-Over Mitigating Alienative-Conflicts; e.g., over: 1. People's Constitutional-Rights; 2. People's World-Wide Humane-Rights; 3. People's Rights to be Graciously-Honest; 4. Gross Alienative-Distributive-Injustice; 5. Articulating Accurate-Honest-Descriptions of Alienative-Conflicts; 6. Greed, Hoarding, Stealing and Domination; 7. Coercion, Violence, Cruelty, Torture; 8. Mitigating Their-Own Alienative-Conflicts with Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters; 9. Dishonesty and Pretentious-Actions; 10. Winning Collusive-Games of Mutual-Self-Deception. The above ten kinds of conflicts pertain directly to Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters' efforts to Sustain-and-Augment many kinds of Alienative-Conflicts - - - with benefits primarily to themselves. No civilization can long-be-sustainable if it affirms or honors: behaviors, ideals, principles and/or ground for hope - - - which THREATEN PEOPLE'S: 1. Honesty. 2. Personal and/or Communal Integrative Processes and/or Present-Integrities. 3. Personal-Health and Communities'-Health. 4. Adequate Supplies of Pure-Material-Resources within Gods' Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Space-Ship-Earth. 5. Access to Supplies of Pure-Material-Resources within God's Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Space-Ship-Earth. 6. Communication, Meeting, and Petition RIGHTS. 7. Objective-and-Reflexive Systems-Analyses and the Publication-of-the-Results of such Analyses. 8. Hints of: Love, Intimacies and Possible-Sexual-Relationships. 9. Hints of Reconciliation and Possible Open-and-Honest-Dialogues. 10. Hints of Transcending-and-Letting-GO of: Violence, Coercion, Domination, Terrorism and Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception. Domineering-Bullies regularly assume and believe that everybody has a DUTY to be willing to CONTENTIOUSLY-DEFEND everything that they have said or written - - - because all relationships between people are assumed to be Alienative-Conflicts over who will be dominant and/or most influential in Coercive-Ways; overt or covert. It is for them unthinkable that anybody who wants to be honored; will not be ready at every opportunity to CONTENTIOUSLY-DEFEND what they have said or written. Domineering-Bullies do not grant people the Constitutional Right to REMAIN-SILENT WITH-HONOR-AND-RESPECT. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- No Security-Paradigm which trusts and depends-upon Alienative-Conflicts as Key-Elements in Generating-Security for Team- Members and their own-exclusive: families, tribes, coalitions, gangs, colonies, classes, towns, villages, cities, states, nations, religions, political- parties, etc. - - - can Long-Term SUSTAIN a coherent pattern of Being-Together in Shalom's Healthy-Ways of Neighborly-Love. Trusting-Alienative-Conflicts as Honorable-Means-to-Good-Goals - - - leads inevitably into trusting the following alienative-realities which are seen as HAVING-REDEMPTIVE-POWERS that are worthy of Admiration-and-REVERENCE: Violence Coercion Threats Attacks Pretentions Dishonesty Secrecy Deception False-Appearances Confusion Ignorance Bullies Bullying Mobsters Terrors Terrorism Terrorists Idolatry Absolute-Truth Emperors Empires Colonialism Addictions Wars Cynicism Negativity Denigrations Hopelessness Polarization Depressions Repressions Submission MAD = Mutually-Assured-Destruction with tens of thousands of Hydrogen-Bombs; each a Mega-City-Destroyer Winning-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception about the Advantages of Concentrating Powers-and-Wealth Ponzie "Investments" Greed Hoarding Always-Getting-More Exponential-Growth-Without-End While trusting and honoring the above kinds of Alienative-Realities, as Sustainable-Means-to-Security- and-Invulnerability - - - No-One can tolerate True-Lovers or Mitigators of Alienative-Conflicts - - - because they are Traitors-to-the-Causes of "True-Security" and "Eternal-Invulnerability". Thus Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters are eternally: Insecure, Vulnerable, and in Terror they form coalitions of what they regard as "Reliable-Means to Invulnerability; as the Key-to-Security-and-Sustainability. They identify, label and eliminate doubters and faithless traitors. They cannot rest until they are completely and perfectly INVULNERABLE. They must WIN every one of their Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception! They are committed to BE-LOYAL to the BITTER-END! Before they get to the BITTER-END they are Out-of-Touch-With-any-Gracious-Reality! --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Civilizations' Pretentions of Being-Forever-Sustainable in the Absence-of-Widely-Honored True-Lovers and Mitigators of Alienative-Convicts - - - will RELIABLY lead to the Tragic-Collapse of those Civilizations - - - - with little anticipation of the collapse! Be-Aware and Beware of how your own civilization is behaving. Be Graciously-Together in Shalom's-Sanctuaries! Be Graciously-Engaged in Open-and-Honest-Dialogues!