Many Alienative-Conflicts flow from some people's sense/believe - - - - - - - - - - - - - that they CANNOT BE:

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Right   Correct    Honorable     Righteous  Superior     Accepted   Included   Supported   Affirmed      Welcomed

                                             IF-OTHERS-ARE-NOT-CLEARLY

Wrong   Incorrect  Despicable    Guilty     Punished    Rejected   Excluded   Attacked    Denigrated    Excommunicated

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If some people in a community are guided by the above beliefs/sense - - - their presence in the community will lead

to the presence in the community of Tragically-Alienative-Conflicts - - - and Excluding-Such-People from Fellowship

within the Com-Unity - - - will NOT-HELP to Mitigate such Alienative-Conflicts and/or Patterns-of-Alienation.  


                      More-of-the-Same;  will not LEAD-TO there being Less-of-the-Same.

We cannot Mitigate Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts  regarding  being Included as "The-Best" people in the community - - -

by being More-Domineering as Bullies and/or Mobbing-Mobsters - - - - - - than those whom we fear and resent.

To Mitigate such Alienative-Conflict we must Mitigate Our-Own-Beliefs that the Keys to Communal-Integrity and 

Personal-Integrity - - - DO-IN-FACT-INCLUDE the above Opening-Sense/Belief that we CANNOT BE:

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Right   Correct    Honorable   Righteous  Superior     Accepted   Included   Supported   Affirmed      Welcomed

                                             IF-OTHERS-ARE-NOT-CLEARLY

Wrong   Incorrect  Despicable  Guilty     Punished     Rejected   Excluded   Attacked    Denigrated    Excommunicated

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To transcend the above kinds of ENTRAPMENTS - - - we must work cooperatively to augment-by-example - - - the 

integrative possibilities of respecting-and-honoring people who are quite-clearly:

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Different    Creative         Changing    Growing        Learning     Complementary    Complimentary      Integrative

Synthesizers Questioners      Curious     Explorers      Lovers       Intimate         Affectionate       Hospitable

Generous     Non-Competitive  Cooperative Collaborators  Integrators  Synthesizers     Novelists          Evolving

Poets        Musicians        Composers   Visionaries    Dreamers     Empathetic       Sympathetic        Kind

Thoughtful   Sensitive        Analytic    Objective      Reflexive    Welcome          Conversationalists Writers

Singers      Artists          Inclusive   Accepting      Tolerant     Reconcilers      Mitigators         Humble

Meek         Servants         Healers     Helpers        Supporters   Prioritizors     Democratic         Conservers

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We need to mitigate irrational-fears of people who are feared only because we are not familiar with them; because they 

are to us "strangers", "different", "unknown".  Fears and terrors which are grounded in: Ignorance, Confusion,

Provincialism, Isolation, Alienation, Greed,  Arrogance,  Self-Righteousness, Addictions, Codependent-Support-Networks

and Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception - - - whether WON or LOST - - - are threats to our Personal-and-Communal

Integrities and Sustainabilities.   


To survive - - - we must: Transcend, Mitigate and Let-Go-Of  such Alienative-Fears-and-Terrors  which serve no helpful

purpose!

Fears that generate  Only-Alienation  without any  Learning-of-Prudent-Sustainable-Behaviors; ARE NOT HONORABLE FEARS.

To survive - - - we must: Transcend, Mitigate and Let-Go-Of  such   FEARS  THAT ARE NOT HONORABLE!

To survive - - - as a civilization - - - we must Mitigate such Unsubstantiated-Fears   within the Gracious-Ways-

of Shalom with Mutually-and-Equally-Shared-Love.   Shalom!

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Fears recommended only by habits and traditions - - - Must-Be-Mitigated in the Ways-of-Shalom; not with more fears.

We must regularly do both Objective-and-Reflexive Systems-Analyses of our Non-Productive and Alienative-Fears.


Gathering-Together only with people who are very much like us in What-the-Fear - - - is an exceedingly dangerous
habit and/or tradition!

Fearing the unknown which is never substantiated - - - is exceedingly dangerous!

Being Cautious when ignorant is wise; especially when we are ignorant about what it is that we fear!

We must eliminate our ignorance of that which we think merits fear and anxiety and avoidance.

Ignorance of what we fear - - - is not an admirable form of "purity" which is equated with "honor".

                   When In-Ignorance we Fall-Into-Fear-and-Anxiety - - - we are stuck!

                  Recovery is slower than falling into holes that are deep and enduring.

                        Be-Graciously-Together  Within-Shalom's  Sustainable-Ways!

                           Work to create SUSTAINABLE CIVIL COMMUNITIES OF SHALOM