To helpfully Mitigate Our-Own Alienative-Conflicts with Many-Different-Kinds-of-People - - - we must seek to help them to become aware of the many complex ways in which we-and-they are different-from-each-other and so we often misunderstand-each other's complexly-interacting: Perspectives Assumption Beliefs Past-Experiences Grounds-for-Fear Grounds-for-Trust Priorities Terrors Anxieties Injuries Diseases Preoccupations Intimacies Friendships Relationships Vocabularies Poetry Music/Songs Body-Languages Descriptions Prescriptions Proscriptions Demands Commands Expectations Predictions Writings Spoken-Languages Computations Values Ideals Principles Virtues Excommunications Conceptions of Evil Conceptions-of-Good Honors Reverence Admiration Conceptions-of-God Religious-Traditions Religious-Rituals Salvations Redemptions Hells Conceptions of Heaven Conceptions of Hell Conceptions of COSMOS Ignorance Prejudices Egocentrisms Provincialisms Immaturity Alienations Exclusivity Shunnings Vices Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception Wealth-Concentrations Arrogance Pretentions Dishonesty Presumed-Invulnerability Presumed-Powers Presumed-Superiority ============================================================================================================================ The Key-Differences between Domineering-Bullies-and-Mobbing-Mobsters Within their Life-Styles AND IN GREAT CONTRAST True-Lovers Mitigating-their-Alienative-Conflicts Within their Life-Styles Are to be found in how and where they focus their ENTHUSIASMS: Domineering Bullies True-Lovers Mitigating and Mobbing Mobsters Their Alienative-Conflicts FOCUS-UPON: FOCUS UPON: Willing-and-Intending to be: Being-Willing and Offering to RISK being: Invulnerable Vulnerable Violent Gentle Coercive Liberators Exclusive Inclusive Excommunicators Reconcilers Most-Wealthy Humble Most-Powerful Of-Service-to-Others Most-Pretentious Authentic Most-Demanding Facilitators Most-Misleading Transparent Most-Secretive Revealing Most-Arrogant Meek Most-Extreme Mild Most-compulsive Balanced Most-Unilateral Cooperative Most-Brittle Pliable Most-Intolerant Tolerant Most-In-Charge Accommodating Most-Alienative Reconciling Most-Loyal Creative Most-Tenacious Flexible Most-Specialized Integrative In the above on the Right-Side-of-the-Page - - - the words there never imply "Offering to Honor-or-to-Be-Subservient-To" Domineering-Bullies and/or Mobbing-Mobsters. The words - - - instead imply TRANSCENDING the Life-Styles and Alienative-Conflicts that are CENTRAL in the Lives of Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters - - - by working as Graciously as possible - - - to help Mitigate the Tragically-Alienative-Aspects of Our-Own Relationships-with- Domineering-Bullies-and-Mobbing-Mobsters - - - in the crew of God's Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Spherical-Space- Ship-Earth - - - traveling at a great speed through the Unimaginably: Vast and Inhospitable Cold-Cosmic-Void which is Criss-Crossed by Atomic-Sized Cosmic-Ray-Bullets traveling at close to the speed of light, with great powers to penetrate through all kinds of materials and threaten human lives. Here, Earth's Atmosphere and Magnetic-Fields protects us all against the Cold-Cosmic-Void and the Cosmic-Ray-Bullets - - - and offers Finite-Supplies of Essential-Material- Resources - - - which we are Thoughtlessly-Exhausting at Exponentially-Increasingly Rates-of-Consumption - - - - and are now passing through the Peak-in-the-Global-Rate-of-Consumption of the Fluid-Fossil-Fuels: Oil and Natural-Gas. Peak rates in consumption of Coal will inevitably follow in future years. Think, Be-Aware and Beware! Additional peak- rates-of-consumption of other coveted material-resources will inevitably follow due to inhumane greed. Given the extreme differences between Domineering-Bullies, Mobbing-Mobsters and True-Lovers seeking to Mitigate-Alienative- Conflicts - - - it is an extreme challenge to facilitate: Cooperation, Colaboration and Open-and-Honest-Dialogues! Be Graciously Together in Shalom within God's Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Space-Ship Mother-Earth!