When community-leaders are motivated and/or guided to become-involved in personal-intimate-relationships - - - without any initiative originating within any participant in the intimate-relationships - - - questions need to be asked and discussed openly-and-honestly about: 1. The core-motivations, fears, interests, qualifications, and conceptual-frameworks of the potential intruders and/or of those encouraging them to intrude essentially-uninvited into people's private lives. 2. How qualified the potential intruders are to help others to Mitigate-Their-Own-Alienative-Conflicts. 3. Whether or not there are any laws likely to be violated in either the intimate-relationships and/or in the intended intrusions into the intimate-relationships by non-participants within the intimate-relationships. 4. Which course of action is most likely to lead to the most-effective-long-term mitigation of Alienative-Conflicts and Consequent-Relationships-of-Alienation - - - leading to even more Alienative-Conflicts. Be Graciously Together in Shalom within God's Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Space-Ship Mother-Earth!