Healthy-Intimate-Personal-Relationships are Not-the-Fruits-of:

 1. The efforts of Domineering-Bullies and/or Mobbing-Mobsters.

 2. People Winning or Losing any Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception.

 3. People Winning-or-Losing Alienative-Conflicts.

 4. Demands or Commands that call for strict conformity to externally imposed standards that prescribe
    how people should behave "properly" as "good" people to be: admired, honored, rewarded, saved, etc.

 5. People properly playing roles in a prescribed way.

 6. Punishing people who fail to properly play prescribed roles in timely ways and circumstances.

 7. Avoiding threatened punishments of Domineering-Bullies and/or Mobbing-Mobsters.

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Healthy-Intimate-Personal-Relationships Are-the-Fruits-of:

 1. True-Lovers Mitigating Their-Own Alienative-Conflicts through Open-and-Honest-Dialogues within Sanctuaries
    of Shalom created and sustained for all people who seek them as contexts for such Dialogues; leading into
    Personal-and-Communal Integration-Processes and Integrities.

 2. Parents, Teachers, Professors, Religious-Leaders, Political-Leaders and Scientists - - - teaching the
    lessons of Reflexive-and-Objective Systems-Analyses of the processes that Augment-and-Undermine Healthy-
    Intimate-Personal-Relationships.

 3. People Building and Sustaining Shalom's True-Sanctuaries for Open-and-Honest-Dialogues - - - which are the
    Essence of Healthy-Intimate-Personal-Relationships in LOVE.

Be Graciously Together in Shalom   within  God's  Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Space-Ship  Mother-Earth!