To-the-Extent that people and their neighbors are True-Lovers - - - who are Truly-Committed to Collaborations-and Coordinations in Joint-Gracious-Efforts to Mitigate-Their-Own Alienative-Conflicts - - - THEN, TO A PARALLEL EXTENT - - - They will often show to each other how-willing they are to reveal to each other the-natures-of and the-extents-of their-desires to: Be-Graciously-Together-In-Shalom - - - Engaged in Open-and-Honest Risky-Dialogues about what they: Believe Assume Doubt Take-For-Granted Honor Admire Respect Hope-For Fear Need Have Want Control Work-For Integrate Transcend Let-Go-Of Dismiss Ignore Forget Reject Denigrate Destroy Sacrifice Covet Concentrate Cling-To Revere Worship Trust Distrust Suspect And-Why They-Do-So In Acting-Upon-Informed- and-Prudent Essential-Risks - - - In Setting-Prudent-Communal-Priorities - - - that are Long-Term-Sustainable Within the Limiting-Contexts of God's Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Mother-Spherical-Space-Ship-Earth - - - Within the Expanding-Contexts of the Unimaginably-Hugh Space-Time-Cosmos - - - most of which is either Unimaginably- COLD-or-HOT - - - and Traversed by Deadly-Cosmic-Ray-Subatomic-Bullets - - which often are traveling at close to the Ultimate-Speed-of-Light. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- True-Lovers avoid Being-Seduced into Trying-to-WIN Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception in the GREEDY Life- Styles of Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters - - - Endlessly (?) Concentrating Powers and Wealth for THEMSELVES. True-Lovers know that such Long-Term Non-Sustainable Life-Styles are Dead-End-Trips into being Out-of-Touch with the Gracious-Realities-of-Shalom-and-Neighborly-Love Within-their-Own-Neighborhoods of Sustainable-Integrative Processes-and-Intimate-Relationships. True-Lovers Often Reveal to each other - - - as Clearly-as-they-can-do-so - - - Just-What are their most fundamental priority: Concerns, Fears, Ideals, Principles and Ground-for-Hope - - - and how they integrate all of them as fully Willing-Lovers. They encourage and help each other - - - to do likewise; together in Shalom's Safe-for-All-Sanctuaries for Open-and-Honest-Dialogues; about the needs of all members of the crew of Tiny-Isolated Space-Ship Mother-Earth. Be Graciously Together in Shalom within Astronomically-Tiny-and-Isolated Space-Ship Mother-Earth