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Domineering-Bullies can be unilaterally successful in achieving their chosen goals - - -
ONLY if they can be SURE that the personally will not be fundamentally-changed during the endeavor.
Their HAZARD is that Becoming-Authentically-Involved in any Healthy-Integrative intimate/sexual relationship is likely
to lead to fundamental changes in the personal participants. For this reason - - - within the frameworks of the
Life-Styles of Domineering-Bullies and their Ideologies/Paradigms - - - it is Absolutely-Taboo to get involved in any
Healthy-Integrative intimate/sexual relationship, for doing so is likely to lead to fundamental changes in the personal participants - - - and to TREASON; as TREASON is Unilaterally-Defined by Leading Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters.
Such TREASON is bound to be punished by: Excommunications, Shunnings, Banishments, Denigrations and possibly executions.
Gangs of Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters have their ways of Generating-Conformity! among their "honorable" members!
Domineering-Bullies In-Self-Defense must Be-Totally-Committed to Being-Totally-in-Control of all interactions
between themselves and Threatening-True-Lovers who are Trying-to-Seduce Vulnerable-Ones away from the Life-Style of
Domineering-Bullies. Beware! We must Together-WIN-ALL of our Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception. If we fail to
WIN - - - we will be excommunicated, banished, shunned! Be-Faithful to our Missions as Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-
Mobsters.
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IN CONTRAST
True-Lovers seek to AVOID becoming involved in, and/or showing respect for - - - human behaviors which will most probably
generate augmentations of:
Alienations Misunderstandings Confusions Ignorance Domination Isolation Distributive-Injustice
Segregation-Patterns-Rank-Orderings Violence Distrust Coercion Terrors And-Related-Tragic-Realities
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IN CONTRAST
Domineering-Bullies and Mobbing-Mobsters are frequently (often intentionally) involved in and/or show respect for - - -
the kinds of inhumane behaviors that True-Lovers are seeking to avoid-becoming-involved-within and/or complicit with.
Violence Coercion Repression Suppression Depression Demands Commands Unilateral-Actions
Terrors Ignorance Confusion Greed Hoarding Shunning Excommunication Banishments
Exclusivity Arrogance Self-Righteousness Insensitivity Genocide Destruction Devastation Wars
Addictions Codependent-Support-Networks of Addicts Attacks Threats Punishments Blockages
Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception Military-Industrial-Congressional-Complexes Isolationism
Building Concentrations-of-Wealth-and-Powers Preoccupations with Defeating Identified-Enemies Purification & Purity
Preoccupations with Identified-EVIL-PEOPLE Preoccupations with Coalitions-of-Good-People Winning-Conflicts
Augmentations of Alienative-Conflicts Augmentations of Patterns-of-Alienation Identifying-Losers
Denigrations of Weak-True-Lovers' Failures Denigrations of Shalom and Shalom's Sanctuaries Identifying-Traitors
Attempting to Control Lovers' Communications Attempting to Control True-and-Healthy-Intimacies Mitigating-Risks
Attempting to Control Lovers' Objective/Reflexive Systems-Analyses of any of these Tragic Realities Preparing-for-War
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IN CONTRAST
The following are Gracious-Foci of Affirmations-and-Demonstrations made by True-Lovers who seek to Mitigate Their-Own
Alienative-Conflicts, to help build a SUSTAINABLE-CIVILIZATION within God's Astronomically Tiny-and-Isolated Spherical
Space-Ship-Earth with its Finite/Limited Essential-PURE-Material-Resources such as: Oil, Coal, U-235, Copper, Silver,
Gold, Rare-Earth-Elements, Water, Air, Carbohydrates, Rich-Soils, etc.
Distributive-Justice Neighborly-Love Reconciliations Hospitality Generosity Sharing Honesty Humility
Dialogues Listening Balance Mutuality Empathy Sympathy Sensitivity Integrity Hope
Authenticity Meekness Cooperation Forgiveness Apologies Repentance Confessions Integrations Joy
Integrities Liberations Sustainability Moderation Accuracy Descriptions Coherence Robustness Patience
Tolerance Flexibility Non-Violence Gentleness Descriptions Parables Stories Music Poetry
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In the above, the focus is NOT upon what people - - - SHOULD, or SHOULD-NOT:
Do, Say, Affirm, Demonstrate, Avoid or Communicate - - - regarding "POSITIONS-TAKEN" IN REGARDS TO Alienative-Conflicts.
The focus IS-NOT upon "POSITIONS" in regards to: Issues, Conflicts, Priorities, Promises, Covenants, Persons, Evil, etc.
The focus IS-UPON Mitigating-Our-Own-Alienative-Conflicts and their Consequent-Patterns-of-Alienation.
Be-Graciously-Together within Shalom's-Gracious-Ways!
Within Healthy-Integrative-Honest-Cooperative-Relationships
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